Thursday, January 14, 2010

Haiti

By now, I am sure everyone has heard the news about the terrible tragedy that has overcome Port-au-Prince, Haiti. This earthquake has shaken the lives of the people who live there as well as so much of Southern Florida. Miami and surrounding areas like Florida City are so deeply connected culturally to Haiti. Most of the children and youth I work with have relatives in Haiti. Many of them have at least one parent still in Haiti.

After high school tutoring was over last night, Tony and I were driving around in the van dropping all the youth off at their houses. Many of them made remarks like, "I don't want to go home." And while, often times, they make these remarks in a joking manner (mostly to annoy Tony and I so we have to kick them out of the van...), this time we knew it was true for every single one of them. One girl said she didn't want to go home because she just couldn't take the crying anymore. She said her mom hasn't stopped crying since the news hit Florida. The hardest part about all of this sadness is that no one knows anything. Haiti is in a complete and total state of shock. Rescue crews don't even know where to begin. No communication comes in or out of the country, and therefore, so many of our families are in a similar and constant state of shock. It is the unknown that haunts so many of our youth and families at this point.

My roommates and I sat around a few nights ago praying, talking, and attempting to make any sense of the tragedy. The thing that we have come to realize at this point is there's not a whole lot we can personally do other than give to organizations that CAN do something. Some of the churches around the area are collecting clothes and material things. Which is good, and I do not want to discourage anyone from doing so, however, what the Haitian people need right now is emergency supplies. They need food, water, and medical care. So, if you are like us and do not know where to begin, but want to donate to legitimate organization that you know will be doing good, here's a list of some of the organizations sent out via email by South Florida Urban Ministries. I know there are tons more as well, I was just hoping to give people a starting point.

United Way is newly partnered with South Florida Urban Ministries and Branches. We received an email yesterday with this link letting us know they are doing all they can to help those in Haiti as well as those in South Florida who have relatives in Haiti.

If you haven't heard, the U.S. Department of State has made a fund that you can drop money in via your cell phone. U.S. Secretary of State Hilary Clinton was quoted this morning as saying that this fund already has $3 million in it going to the Red Cross for Haitian relief aid. Just text "Haiti" to 90999 and a donation of $10 will be made and billed to your next cell phone bill.

Mercy Corps is currently accepting donations.

Partners in Health is already on the ground and running operations in Haiti.

Yèle Haiti was established by Wyclef Jean and is also already on the ground in Haiti. You can text donations to this organization as well by texting "yele" to 501501. This will donate $5 to the Haitian relief fund.

The Mennonite Central Committee has been in Haiti since 1958 and is currently planning efforts.

The United Methodist Committee on Relief also has a long history of working in Haiti and is now leading earthquake relief. You can donate to UMCOR and 100% of your donations go directly to helping the victims.

I also got word that the Presbyterian Disaster Assistance is setting up funds. You can donate to PDA by directing your money to account number DR000064 within the Presbyterian Church.

I hope that some of these links will help. I'm afraid, at this point, that all we can do is pray. Pray for the families affected so terribly. Pray for the Haitians. Pray for the Florida City Community. Pray for South Florida. Pray for the Haitian government.

Just keep those prayers coming in.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Miss Understood

These are a few conversations that I have had with my youth over the past few months. Unfortunately these are direct quotes. Enjoy reading what I get to listen to on a daily basis. Welcome to my life.

Marcknal: "Miss, why does your hair look like that?"
Me: "Like what?"
Marcknal: "Like, all....yellow."
Me: "I think I was born with 'yellow' hair."
Marcknal: "What? That's impossible. It looks fake."
Me: "Well, thank you. But, what color hair were you born with?"
Marcknal: "I wasn't born with hair!"


Jasmine: "Miss, do you have a man?"
Me: "No."
Jasmine: "Oh, that's because you're fat and ugly."
Me: "Thank you for your honesty. And for reinforcing my junior high insecurities."


Valerry: "Miss, what are you?"
Me: "What do you mean?"
Valerry: "Like, are you Haitian, Cuban, Salvadoran? What are you?"
Me: "I'm Texan."
Valerry: "GurlBeFo'Real."


Me: "I smell like a campfire!"
Yamilet: "Miss, that is NOT what you smell like."
Me: "Then what do I smell like?"
Yamilet: "Something BAD."


Tiger: "Miss, where you from?"
Me: "Texas."
Tiger: "What's that?"


Kevelyn: "Miss, aren't you from China? Do you eat pandas there?"
Me: "I don't know, I'm from Korea. We eat rice."
Kevelyn: "Ohhhh."
(And yes...I have given up on attempting to fight the fact that my kids think I look Chinese.)


Alait: "Miss, were you with your girlfriend on New Year's Eve?"
Me: "Yes, I was with my girlfriends on New Year's."
Alait: "WHAT?! You're a lesbian??"
Me: "What? No...you call your friends girlfriends."
Alait: "Who calls their friends girlfriends?"
Me: "Lots of people." (Thinking that I should insert "My grandmother, for example...")
Alait: "Like girls who date other girls?"
Me: "Nevermind."


Stephanie: "Miss, THAT'S your car?"
Me: "Yes. Do you like it?"
Stephanie: "No. Does it actually make it here from Miami??"
Me: "What?! It's a good car! And I'm standing here, aren't I? So I must have made it from Miami?"
Stephanie: "Is it going to make it back to Miami?"
Me: "I don't know..."


Brunia: "Miss, how many people do you live with?"
Me: "Four."
Brunia: "Oh. Five girls in a house must suck."
Me: "No, two of them are boys."
Brunia: "Isn't it a sin to live with a boy before you are married?"
Me: "Well, I'm not dating both of them!"
Brunia: "Oh, so which one ARE you dating?"


Mike: "Miss, you eas'in' me?!"
Me: "No..."
Mike: "Yes you is."
Me: "Yeah...I don't actually know what that means."


You truly have to admire kids. For their blunt honesty if nothing else...